Life Lessons

Life's lessons, a cruel punishment that all must go through to become a well rounded individual. Hurt, anxiety, happiness, pain, love, hate; just a few of the rock hard emotions that you must feel to stand strong in the end. No one enjoys these things, at least not most of them, but it is something that has to be done to understand the next things that life has to throw our way.

Many people try to float their way through life being unattached with the worldly things thinking that they can dodge the painful bullets of Life lessons. But eventually they are brought back down to earth with a blow of pain and fury.

You don't even understand that it is a lesson until far down the road when there is no changing the past. You look back and are ready to fix it, but there is nothing that can be done.
When do you walk away from something and call it a Life Lesson? Is there a boundary or imaginary line you cross to consider this? Take for instance a relationship gone wrong and wanting to fix it. Does this contend to be a life lesson, or is it something you should try with all your heart to make a reality and write a new ending to the story?

How long does someone have to be rejected before they go and never even look back? And is everyone strong enough to get through the same things or is it really that only the strong survive?

Who really is the one to answer these questions for an individual? Do they just each do things their own way or do they seek guidance from a close friend or family member?

I guess in the end each situation should stand on its own and not intend on any one answer working for them. But when do you just say good-bye, call it a wash and add it to the list of many life lessons that we all end up having?

Hell, does anyone really even know that? Not until it really isn't the center and main focus of our lives. But I guess blogging about it makes it all a little better, huh? ;P

Until Then,
Blondie